"is shockingly disgusting"
What's so shocking about this?
I really think you're exaggerating. Put yourself in their shoes, you are cooking a meal, and a spider/fly/roach jumps into the pan while you're reaching for salt. You serve the meal to a hungry Tech Guru's fiance, and she finds the critter.
You, the cook/shop owner, apologize, knowing how terrible the incident can be, but Tech Guru decides to file a lawsuit and jeopardize your career. Even though it was never intentional, and really "out of hand"
I've seen it happen many times. Flies can end up in ice cream while you're pouring it, snails can cling hard to lettuce, spiders and insects can jump into frying oil, etc... it's a terrible thing to think about, but so are a lot of other horrible things that happen everyday. I once almost swallowed a fly by mistake, as it flew right into my byte of "foul" as I was carrying it from the plate to my mouth. Also seen it happen at McDonald's where it flew right into a customer's cup of McFlurry... they simply replaced the cup, and the customer moved on.
The restaurant manager apologized and did what he could to make up. I doubt it's the "sense of you filing a lawsuit against them", and probably just being the hospitable Lebanese restaurant owner that he is. And trust me, we have some of the best restaurant experiences in Lebanon, judging by the horror stories I hear from my friends studying abroad. In France a waiter can drop your food, pick it up and feed it to you, and even be rude about it!
Also, regardless of the incident, how about you think of it as an honest mistake. You make none of these? You've never made a mistake you've wished for the receiver to forgive? Just forgive, and don't eat their anymore... it's that simple.
Save yourself the hassle, and let it go.
Tech Guru wrote I work in the government & I know the black side of things.
Such hypocrisy... So you work for our corrupted government, and are familiar with "the black side of things" (totally by being all "white" yourself). But when it comes to your fiance's food, you can't stand it huh?
( PS: black and white are used to stay within OP's terminology. Black can be good, and white can be bad... SJWs, you can stay at rest )
duke-of-bytes wroteGood luck , i am behind you ...it is time for businesses to know that the consumers are not sheep.
Let me know if you need any legal advice
I know where you're coming from. But even in OP's post, it's clear the owner tried to make up for them, as opposed to how phonefinity/CTC handled your case.
EDIT: I just googled ZWZ Vegan Boom (obviously never had that cause I LOVE MEAT). It looks like something that they import and fry... so maybe have your "black side of things" people investigate food importing rather than going all out on one establishment.