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Dear my porn addiction started at 12 like any normal boy or girl who have just discovered the new feeling.
This depression will pass, it is just a phase of constant mixed feelings with no escape other than the toilet until he has other means.
If you really want ti help get him a hooker.
If you think porn is bad you need to get treated asap.
In anycase it is well known and proven that the internet is for porn:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YRgNOyCnbqg
(sorry couldnt resist)
From another view, we all know that in porn there are what we call "MILF"
Watching it over and over will give you weird ideas and eventually would you permit yourself of looking at your mom like a "sexual object" just like in the movie you saw?

Porn is BAD! It gives you false idea and destroys many things, among them the way you view a women!
I don't like to watch porn, I would rather just have the real thing!

PS: Hentai is another thing :P
Watch "two girls one cup". All porn will be smooth and nice from that point onward.
arithma wroteWatch "two girls one cup". All porn will be smooth and nice from that point onward.
Clean girls mmmm nice memories

Monkey D. Luffy wroteFrom another view, we all know that in porn there are what we call "MILF"
Watching it over and over will give you weird ideas and eventually would you permit yourself of looking at your mom like a "sexual object" just like in the movie you saw?

Porn is BAD! It gives you false idea and destroys many things, among them the way you view a women!
I don't like to watch porn, I would rather just have the real thing!

PS: Hentai is another thing :P
So if you get married and you are satisfied you stop watching porn?
I guess i should delete my 10TB of porn collection


You have a real life why do you watch any kind of movie? For fantasy? For the feeling it gives you? For pure entertainment? Why do you watch anime? (or hentai)

In any case thank god for porn, we now have cds, dvds , blue ray... Without them we would still be stuck on floppy
Monkey D. Luffy wroteFrom another view, we all know that in porn there are what we call "MILF"
Watching it over and over will give you weird ideas and eventually would you permit yourself of looking at your mom like a "sexual object" just like in the movie you saw?

Porn is BAD! It gives you false idea and destroys many things, among them the way you view a women!
I don't like to watch porn, I would rather just have the real thing!
I totally agree on that point, most of the scenarios within those videos are actually immoral in my opinion for example between members of family, boss with secretary, a plumber with the house owner in the kitchen, student and teacher, someone with his friends mom etc...(I find them really hilarious). I think that is what is mostly wrong with these videos too, the setting and theme of the stories. For younger people, they would start accepting the fact subconsciously that this stuff is okay and is normal to have. It may not necessarily be what they do to each other and how but also whom with whom. Just my 2 cents.

Oh and this thread has some really hilarious posts, just made my day :P
AymanFarhat wrote
Monkey D. Luffy wroteFrom another view, we all know that in porn there are what we call "MILF"
Watching it over and over will give you weird ideas and eventually would you permit yourself of looking at your mom like a "sexual object" just like in the movie you saw?

Porn is BAD! It gives you false idea and destroys many things, among them the way you view a women!
I don't like to watch porn, I would rather just have the real thing!
I totally agree on that point, most of the scenarios within those videos are actually immoral in my opinion for example between members of family, boss with secretary, a plumber with the house owner in the kitchen, student and teacher, someone with his friends mom etc...(I find them really hilarious). I think that is what is mostly wrong with these videos too, the setting and theme of the stories. For younger people, they would start accepting the fact subconsciously that this stuff is okay and is normal to have. It may not necessarily be what they do to each other and how but also whom with whom. Just my 2 cents.

Oh and this thread has some really hilarious posts, just made my day :P
You watched porn it seems and you can know these are fantasies, trust their judgement if you cannot then you are not ready to bring a kid into this world thus you cannot judge what is acceptable.
There are murderers, drugs, you want to hide all of these behind a filter too?
i suppose its a thing you eventually grow out of

it's completely normal
ZeRaW wroteYou watched porn it seems and you can know these are fantasies, trust their judgement if you cannot then you are not ready to bring a kid into this world thus you cannot judge what is acceptable.
There are murderers, drugs, you want to hide all of these behind a filter too?
You can call me retarded, but all these relations you've just drawn don't make sense to me, at all. They are fantasies indeed but not necessarily mine, why is a teen supposed to see fantasies that are not his while what he is looking to find answers of how things are and how it all works. And regarding kids, I personally would never bring a kid to such a f***d up world we live in.
on a side note, i think we live in a hypocritical environment... most girl dress like whores but its like "look but don't touch" ...
which leaves the average guy quite horny and desperate... its like me standing in front of a kid and waving a lolypop and going like you see this tasty lolypop? you will never have it! hahahah :D

then to make things worst you even have so called "singers" that are actually selling their erotic body and acts on tv....

filtering porn wont solve anything...
sex is part of life... everybody knows the porn on the internet is just an act...
if anything we should stop those stupid cartoons that under mind our children...
That's completely normal and they will eventually get over it.
If anything I recommend inserting informational messages on such websites saying that porn stars are actually just acting through several hours...inserting links of sex education websites above it would be a +1 also.
It's true that porn have some negative effects on a person, but as I said when it become an addict the serious problem may start...
And we can't say that all Porn is not like real relationship... There's a backup plan: Homemade video!
-when I mentioned "16 years old" I didn't mean exclusively 16
-if you find porn normal, or in your experience you say that you adapted to it then don't generalize this idea because a lot of people won't just adapt-not all people are like each other-
-the idea of proxies DVD's and alternatives other than internet, plays a role but the major exposure to porn is from the internet and I repeat not all children know how to use proxies and just making a barrier would be better
-Psychological experts state that Porn shows females as sexual objects
-Porn addiction causes paraphilia: after watching a lot of porn you won't be interested in the original subjects and since bizarre subjects are available you would watch ex: animals, necrophilia, rape, bondage, humiliation....
-Most of you didn't see this poor child he is failing in his school-although he is intelligent- he can't focus he has a high libido for his age he even see his teachers, relatives as sexual objects the worst of all he watched a lot of bondage, violent sex, whipping, slavery... I don't find it by any means appropriate for his age and he is depressed and can't even tell his parents
-the +18 restriction has a reason, in other countries porn is illegal for those under age
-when I said that porn is bad I didn't mean that violence is not as bad, another problem in Lebanon is that there is no censorship on violent movies and I don't like those "retards" that play disgusting movies-in my sole opinion- like "SAW" for their children ...to make them stronger!!
-Testosterone is the male hormone behind his libido, sexual activity increases its level so don't think that masturbation will make someone feel better or will lower his sexual desire instead it will increase it and sex is based on both partners and love the reason behind sex is to increase the link between to partners when you have an orgasm "Oxitocin" levels will peak it is the same hormone that links the mother to her child so excessive masturbation without a partner will cause great emotional gap
-I highly don't respect those who said that he should go to a "whore" I highly don't respect the idea behind going to a whore or sending my little brother or child to a whore and I don't like the idea behind any relative of me working as a whore and this is not from religious point of view it is from biological and ethical one

anyway you could agree with me or not, but I think that what I asked for has no negative effects at all(or at least no one told me what are its negative effects)
Abbabbjj knows what he's talking about, and i would like to hight his point of.dobt generalise, what worked fine for you doesnt mean it is.not not a threat on the others anymore.
Monkey D. Luffy wrotePorn is BAD!
I actually have that same sticker on my car
couldn't agree more
Personally I believe that porn is good and that it should be a part of every normal teenager, in fact a teenager who does not masturbate is something that should be worrying. Having said that, it is true that exposure to the porn industry causes distortion in the boys mind and is not good for him. But you cannot solve that problem by limiting porn.

The solution is to stop treating sex as a taboo, make parents talk to their children about sex and let families become more open about it. This is the only real solution, once sex or masturbation if you want, becomes widely accepted inside the family then you will be able to fix the problem.

As for the depressed boy, he probably feels that way because he thinks that he is doing something bad, an act against God or something like that rather than because of porn itself. only solution, talking about it!
there are people who said "send him to a whore". my friend is a porn addict and masturbates a lot, so he was looking for a way to change... do you know what he did? he went and paid a whore, and did it. He thought by experiencing it he will no longer be an addict and loose interest in porn. Instead after he did it, he became even more obsessed and every time he saw a girl he would start to think "hmmm, I wonder how it feels like if I do it with her?" It made his problem worse...

also from my religious point of view "Thy shalt NOT commit adultery"-exodus 20:14

and @Devil'sAdvocate "oh and since all you guys dont agree with the suggestion,yall are a bunch of virgins who watch porn too :P" what's wrong with being a virgin? seriously, what is wrong with society? "oh, you're still a virgin?" 80% of my friends who are under 21 have already lost there virginity...doesn't anyone read The Bible these days? virgins are treated like losers in ALL of movies/tv shows...I'm virgin and proud, and I'm saving it for marriage! :)
Abbabbj wrote-when I mentioned "16 years old" I didn't mean exclusively 16
-if you find porn normal, or in your experience you say that you adapted to it then don't generalize this idea because a lot of people won't just adapt-not all people are like each other-
-the idea of proxies DVD's and alternatives other than internet, plays a role but the major exposure to porn is from the internet and I repeat not all children know how to use proxies and just making a barrier would be better
-Psychological experts state that Porn shows females as sexual objects
-Porn addiction causes paraphilia: after watching a lot of porn you won't be interested in the original subjects and since bizarre subjects are available you would watch ex: animals, necrophilia, rape, bondage, humiliation....
-Most of you didn't see this poor child he is failing in his school-although he is intelligent- he can't focus he has a high libido for his age he even see his teachers, relatives as sexual objects the worst of all he watched a lot of bondage, violent sex, whipping, slavery... I don't find it by any means appropriate for his age and he is depressed and can't even tell his parents
-the +18 restriction has a reason, in other countries porn is illegal for those under age
-when I said that porn is bad I didn't mean that violence is not as bad, another problem in Lebanon is that there is no censorship on violent movies and I don't like those "retards" that play disgusting movies-in my sole opinion- like "SAW" for their children ...to make them stronger!!
-Testosterone is the male hormone behind his libido, sexual activity increases its level so don't think that masturbation will make someone feel better or will lower his sexual desire instead it will increase it and sex is based on both partners and love the reason behind sex is to increase the link between to partners when you have an orgasm "Oxitocin" levels will peak it is the same hormone that links the mother to her child so excessive masturbation without a partner will cause great emotional gap
-I highly don't respect those who said that he should go to a "whore" I highly don't respect the idea behind going to a whore or sending my little brother or child to a whore and I don't like the idea behind any relative of me working as a whore and this is not from religious point of view it is from biological and ethical one

anyway you could agree with me or not, but I think that what I asked for has no negative effects at all(or at least no one told me what are its negative effects)
No negative effect? Please reconsider.
We do have an example country of pure censorship (S.A.) and i do not think it is a good example.
As you are a teacher you would want your students to be exposed to everything and learn, not hide in shells and escape from life.

The most obvious side effect of censorship is the total ignorance of the other sex meaning bad career choices, bad relation choices, based on ignorance...

Life is not a porn movie but it is not also without temptations. The main problem with your idea is that it is not a solution it is just trying to remove the ever growing temptations... The best solution is to seek medical help if you are an addict.

As for sending him to a whore it was a joke obviously.
sex is not a taboo
the boy is not religious neither his family he is depressed from the scenes of whipping or electrifying females...
parents and children should talk about sex 100% true
PORN is not SEX
porn has nothing to do with masturbation it causes it to happen more than normal
@babum: tell me what is the negative effect of limiting porn? maybe it is not the final solution but it have a role
Abbabbj wrotesex is not a taboo
the boy is not religious neither his family he is depressed from the scenes of whipping or electrifying females...
parents and children should talk about sex 100% true
PORN is not SEX
porn has nothing to do with masturbation it causes it to happen more than normal
@babum: tell me what is the negative effect of limiting porn? maybe it is not the final solution but it have a role
Here is an example Negative effect you just mentioned: sex will become a taboo