barrad wrotewas it spontanenous like " i dont care, next". Or was it more like you got embarrased and threw a joke which happened to come alive?
Well neither but more like #2.
In my mind I was kind of asking her out but it was a bit ambiguous. So I could just continue and try with the second one and look like I didn't care much.
It was not like "I don't care, next". I guess it was a little out of courtesy and friendliness because she was right there and saw it, part because it offered less embarrassing exit to me, and part because heck it's better than having coffee alone.
I didn't think much, it came naturally.