barrad wroteHey guys, I currently have a problem.
It is about a girl. Everything started when i sat next to her in uni classes, for a week, not on purpose, i'd just find my self sitting there.
Suddenly i became attracted to her, i started listening to romantic love songs(i know its pathetic)...
So i'm a bit shy, but i try to open conversations with her, she never does the same, but she's kind, and she does respond well.
Recently i'm finding my self obssessed with her, needing to check her facebook every now and then, Not a single hour passes without me thinking of her, I don't have the guts to add her as friend as facebook.
In fact, i Don't even know if she likes me back, she has many friends. I never met her outside classes, but she seems to be adventurer or whatever.
Now this is really tickling my nerfs, i want to get rid of her attration, simply because it is destroying me, but on the other hand i don't know if she likes me back, i'll never tell her about my feelings(that's pretty much me, not feeling superior but i'd deadly shy).
I try to convince my self that she doesn't like me, like there are better guys, with no avail.
Any suggestions?
I don't have many friends i can discuss this with so i thought i'd share it here. sorry.
I have been there, I know the feeling, the thing you must know is that don't be too good with her.
Girls like bad boys, they like someone who contradict her, don't say yes for everything, try to be a little macho with her, the thing is if you are too good with her she will throw you in the friend zone. Don't be too rude or vulgar with her too, just a subtle balance between the good guy and ''maniac''.
You must also try to make yourself desirable, when you are away she must think about you and for that you must be more surprising than the ordinary guy, try to establish a physical contact like touching her hand even a massage, a positive physical contact build a better and much faster bond. Don't rush though, porn movies are not real