barrad wroteMy problem is, i want to be with her, and i want things to happen spontaneously, i don't want to plan it off, maybe i'm wrong.
That is OK like I said thing in my experience the most success I had is when it's not planned. In fact I don't know if planning things or even anticipating things work at all.
The thing is in my experience you have to do some of the work. I mean quite often I get the feeling that a woman likes me, she wants to see me again, is happy to see me, sends SMSes, but I had to do that move to "take it to the next level" and be "more than friends"