Think with your brain and not with your heart. Always... Brain first, heart second. And that's just my humble opinion.
Marriage/Relationship Dilemma
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I don't believe that is the case. As I said before, it's not about feelings. Relationships are about building trust. When you ask the wrong people for input, you are disrespecting your real life family and your potential spouse. He should calculate the pros and cons with the affected people and not us random people on the internet.rtp wroteit sounds like a lot of people are living in la la land, you are watching a lot of romance movies
Why should she commit to a relationship with him when he is consulting us instead of her and his family?
Your relationship still young, i hope also you are both young too.
Stay with her in civil relations at least 4 years more, better if you live together under same roof (but as i know it is hard in Lebanon). If you are really bound to each other - marry and pass hard times in life together. If there is too much fights and misunderstanding during this time - each are on his own.
P.S. Check, but maybe it is possible to know genetical health of children on early stages of pregnancy. Study her health issue as much as possible, to help her and to help your possible future together.
And, i wish you good luck!
Stay with her in civil relations at least 4 years more, better if you live together under same roof (but as i know it is hard in Lebanon). If you are really bound to each other - marry and pass hard times in life together. If there is too much fights and misunderstanding during this time - each are on his own.
P.S. Check, but maybe it is possible to know genetical health of children on early stages of pregnancy. Study her health issue as much as possible, to help her and to help your possible future together.
And, i wish you good luck!
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But but I thought Lebgeeks was family *teary eyed face*hussam wroteI don't believe that is the case. As I said before, it's not about feelings. Relationships are about building trust. When you ask the wrong people for input, you are disrespecting your real life family and your potential spouse. He should calculate the pros and cons with the affected people and not us random people on the internet.rtp wroteit sounds like a lot of people are living in la la land, you are watching a lot of romance movies
Why should she commit to a relationship with him when he is consulting us instead of her and his family?
On a more serious note. There is no right and wrong in this situation as it is purely subjective. It seems like OP is looking for someone to reassure him that what he's thinking is correct and that's normal in a way. Everyone wants to find a reason to think they're right and to find someone to back them up on it. However my adivce would be to ask your parents first if they know her, if they don't then go introduce her to your parents slowpoke ! They're probably the ones that always want what's best for you so their advice should hold the most weight (the majority of the time).
Good luck and hopefully you won't regret your decision.
Sometimes it easier to reflect your thoughts on a forum, no need for you guys to give him hard times after he trusted you with a personal issue; It is not like he is going to just follow the dominant opinion here no question asked, evantually he will decide on his own.
@TechGuru, it doesnt seem like a grave issue and If I were in your shoes, this would not be a deal bresker fir me at all. Good Luck!
@TechGuru, it doesnt seem like a grave issue and If I were in your shoes, this would not be a deal bresker fir me at all. Good Luck!