Johnaudi wrote
My particular answer to the question is: lower your rules' standards, make some exceptions on some slightly longer-term commitments, treat yourself with an expensive experience every once in a while, and try to get a ride later at night with a friend or a cab if necessary. If the rules are set up solely for financial reasons, I would lower the more entertaining options (Spa/Sauna etc.) and focus on something that might help generate income to fund your limitations.
The time rule is set because of transportation issues (I wouldn't be able to get home after a certain time unless I start paying for private cars. That is okay once in a while but will be significant if I'm paying that every weekend).
The commitment rule is more about "I want to start with one off events to get myself used to this before committing to something long-term".
The idea was to try as many things as possible before sticking to one.
After reading your comment, I see your point about considering slightly longer-term commitment options and how it helps with building relationships with folks there. I will try searching for something that seems fun.
Thanks for the comment!