I want to quote a movie I watched a few years back, from the movie
Charlie Wilson's War
Gust Avrakotos: There's a little boy and on his 14th birthday he gets a horse... and everybody in the village says, "how wonderful. The boy got a horse" And the Zen master says, "we'll see." Two years later, the boy falls off the horse, breaks his leg, and everyone in the village says, "How terrible." And the Zen master says, "We'll see." Then, a war breaks out and all the young men have to go off and fight... except the boy can't cause his legs all messed up. and everybody in the village says, "How wonderful."
Charlie Wilson: Now the Zen master says, "We'll see."
just think about it for a sec
Also what i tell all my friends about problems is that "a problems are meant to be solved"; if a problem is not solvable then it is not a problem something part of life and you have to accept it. most of your issues are solved with time and money
Also Khaled I am sorry your loss