I have been playing the guitar for almost 10 years now, never took a lesson in my life. In all fairness, I did take extensive piano lessons from age 8 to 18. I've watched and helped quite a bit of my friends to learn and have witnessed them turn into full-blown awesome guitar players, some of them even becoming far better than I'll ever be. The following is the set of advice I give to everyone wanting to learn:
Learning the guitar is not difficult. It just takes time.
No matter what you do, or how much you train, a year from now you'll still think you suck at playing. I'm not going to sugar-coat it, to do awesome things, you'll have to put in the time. At many times you will feel that you are not progressing at all, this is perfectly normal. You are actually progressing far more than you realize. Keep in mind that every great guitarist you'll hear on your radio has taken years and years of practice to reach that level.
It's not difficult, but it takes a lot of practice
Much like any instrument of music, understanding what to do is not difficult. Watch a couple of videos, read a small text here and there, learn basic chords; this is really easy to understand. On the other hand playing is a lot about your fingers' muscle memory. Every time you see someone playing something great, you can be sure that they have repeated them over over and over again to the point where they finger know what to do faster and more precisely than the brain. Think about how your fingers act on a PC keyboard and you'll understand what I mean.
So there's no secret there: practice all the time, or else you'll stagnate. Practicing (almost) daily is not far-fetched. I do it and all the guitarists I know do it as well. Rumor has it that Hendrix used to sleep with his guitar in his arms. You don't have to be Hendrix, but you will get caught up in the same addiction. You say you work out a lot, so you understand how can a hobby become a borderline addiction. On the bright side, the more you do it, the better you become at it and the more you'll enjoy doing it.
There's no "right way"
This one is controversial. I strongly believe that there's no right way of learning the guitar. Every teacher will have their own sets of "rules" and "do's-and-dont's" but it all boils down to finding what suits you the most.
What I'm trying to say is "be experimental" and try everything. For instance, I used to correct a friend/student of mine because of a weird right hand position while fingerpicking (
an awesome sounding acoustic guitar technique). He's stubborn and kept using his technique; today he does it better than I do. Would he have benefited from the "correct" position? Maybe. But he didn't like practicing the correct position, he liked practicing his. And that's what made
his style.
So keep in mind there's no "correct" way. It doesn't matter if you start with an electric guitar or an acousitc one, if you use a pick or strum with your fingers, etc. All you will find are hints, tips and bits of advice from people who know how to play. All you have to do is look at them, analyze them and repeat them until your fingers bleed.
If you don't believe me, try telling these guys there is a "correct" way of playing and they're doing it "wrong":
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NCKTeRW3OhQ
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KDLvlicXBV8
Don't get a teacher
Another controversial one. The truth is, a good teacher is something extremely valuable, but is also something
extremely rare. Average teachers are expensive and a waste of time. We live in the age of the WWW and Youtube. You can learn the basics pretty easily by a simple search online. If you don't know where to start, I suggest you take a look at the work of
Marty Schwartz. He covers a wide aspect of riffs from rock to funk passing by reggae and a strong emphasis on blues. I like him because he doesn't focus on teaching you "songs" as much as teaching you how to think as a guitarist. Which brings me to my next tip.
Don't learn songs
This is particularly difficult when you're just starting, so think of it as a mid-term goal. Practicing songs is very rewarding in the beginning, especially when people around you recognize instantly what you're playing. But it is also extremely limiting. Tabs are an abomination. They do a terrible job at teaching you rhythm, let alone having a proper groove while playing.
Students who learn songs are in a very short-sided mindset:
- "I can only do what has been done and hope to play [favorite song] as well as [favorite guitar player]". Instead you should focus on detecting what makes this guitar player great and add it to your own style.
- "There's only two kinds of playing: chords or solo." Rock songs particularly have this limited view. The guitarist is usually either playing boring chords or doing a very repetitive solo. This sucks. Playing the guitar has unlimited possibilities.
- "I am writing a song". Unless you become a professional guitarist, most of the times nobody cares about "songs" you will have. I mean they're good, and you'll probably end up writing a few of them once you're a good guitarist. But in the meanwhile, what musicians do most is "jamming". Instead of getting together and playing "Knocking on Heaven's door" or "Wish you were here" for the billionth time, musician just like to get together, come up with a few riffs and improvise playing on them. This is a lot easier than it sounds and if you know some guitarists, you'll end up doing this pretty often.
For all the above reasons, it is important that you don't get stuck in the "cover songs" mindset and instead keep a versatile mind where you are learning riffs, licks and cool tricks instead of limited boring songs that you're never going to play as well as the original anyway.
It's all in the right hand
As long as we're on some 'advanced' topics. The right hand, whether you're using a pick or your fingers, plays the most important role in how well you sound. Sure in the beginning, learn some chords, progressions (
learn the 12-bar blues as fast as you can) and a few scales. But very quickly you need to focus on your right hand. Beginners often overlook this aspect of playing, focusing instead on what fret to put my left-hand finger on. (This comes from tabs being a completely broken system). Learning advanced right-hand techniques on stupid simple chords is a billion times better than approximating complicated solo with no right-hand precision.
Listen to music
All the time. All kinds of artists. Focus on the instruments they're playing and learn to listen to this. Appreciate details like a small guitar lick here, a cool drum roll there, listen to what the bass is doing or what instruments are doing the percussion. Turn off FM Radio for ever. Buy whole albums of your favorite artists and listen to them chronologically. Learn to appreciate artists for who they are, not for the songs they're "famous" for. Stay clear of best-ofs because they will taint your soul (they are compilations made by marketing people trying to suck money out of you. If you want to learn what stage Pink Floyd was in in 1972, don't just listen to Money once, go buy Dark Side of the Moon and live with it for a month or two).
Get a good sounding system and a good pair of head/ear-phones. Get rid of poor quality mp3 as much as possible. Respect your ears and the quality recording of great artists, if you want to understand what makes them great.